Double Standards

On a Scale From Virgin to Slut: Why My “Number” Doesn’t Matter
"Your sex life is yours for a reason; it does not have to be divulged or counted or calculated on a scale of virgin-to-’slut’."read more at http://feminspire.com/on-a-scale-from-virgin-to-slut-why-my-number-doesnt-matter/

So the girl who wrote this post said her favorite passage in this movie called Daydream Nation, was the one she posted. But for me, during high school, I was in love with the song Promiscuous Girl by Nelly Furtado, and three of my favorite movies are, Easy A, Friends With Benefits, and No Strings Attached. I was the girl that always dated a different guy. I got bored easily and like a challenge. Then I became that girl who made her boyfriend everything and lost it to him. He completely destroyed me and I became the depressed needy girl who wanted to be alone (if that makes any sense). The fact that I was always dating, made girls hate me and guys did not want to trust me. They spread nasty rumors, which I laugh at now, especially because have of those girls have cheated on their boyfriends, are still obsessed in wanting to be the girl for him, or they are already pregnant or gave birth to their first child. The guys, well, they thought they could have me, and they were wrong.
But now being in college, and out of that small town. I am finally free to be more of an individual then I was in high school. I get to go out with who I want, and do who I want, and it's not a big deal, cause no one gives a shit.
Unfortunately, there comes times when I am really into a guy, but the time he asks me how many guys I have been with, I completely loose interest. First of all, it's none of your god damn business. Second, that is my past, why bring it up, when a future of us together is not certain. Third, why should it even matter? 

It is so shocking how guys are completely hypocritical about how many guys girls sleep with. And on top of that it is even more shocking to see how many girls are against other girls. Girls should always have each other's backs when it comes down to being called names such as "slut" or "whore" because of how many guys they dated, kissed, or fucked. 

Those movies, and that song that I loved in high school were so popular, but they are overlooked. Guys expect that their friends with benefit can only be with them, or vice versa. And girls straight disrespect other girls that live a different lifestyle. 

Just relax, have fun, and try to live your own life. It is actually really simple thing to do.