Minors Repo Rights with Plan B.

“Morning After Pill” Now Available to Girls 15+

I am all for Plan B, don't get me wrong, it does help out a lot and it is smart to take after having unprotected sex. But I do have to say, I disagree with this being available for children that are 15. Yes, I said children. They are barely sophomores in high school! They should not be having unprotected sex. They actually should not be having sex to begin with. The fact that this is available for girls that young is horrible. I am for expressing your sexuality, and being free to having sex without being judged. But I also am a strong believer in having sex when...

 a. you're emotionally ready

     -----> when you know you are able to be with a guy and not get overly emotionally attached that you do become a slut         because you keep sleeping around with guys for the attention and not because you actually want to and then you complain about sleeping with them because you are so lost and confused and you totally lost yourself

 b. hence, when you find yourself and become more of an individual

I honestly do see this being a horrible idea. Coming from a teen who has seen many of my gfs getting pregnant, and many of my gfs becoming one of those emotional girls who tend to have tons of "daddy" issues. It is not fun. It only allows one to stay in that weak mentality. Girls who do get check ups, who are on the pill, who are educated know where to go to get plan b. Girls who know how to go to the doctors on their own know how to get plan b. Girls who are okay with taking about their sex lives, which means they are more open and honest about sex, know where to get plan b. They are more educated. Allowing little uneducated girls that are not emotionally ready to have sex, the option of getting plan b from the local drug store is just plane stupid. They will most likely have more unprotected sex since this is an easy way out for them. 

Contin. of Double Standards

This is what I had to say about Double Standards and the Ignorant people when I'm ticked off... 

April 14

After reading about Repo Rights for my Feminist class... Promiscuous Girl came in mind...
The dude... "You might be the type if I play my cards right
I'll find out by the end of the night"
The female... "You expect me to just let you hit it
But will you still respect me if you get it"
Why is there this double standard?
Boys, you are the fucking idiots who usually want to have sex or pressure the girls into having sex.. then you disrespect the girls and call them sluts if they slept with more then one dude... like fuck off and go fuck a blow up doll...
And for you females who call other girls sluts, You are only allowing us women to be lower then men and never allowing us to finally be at the top of the pyramid of hierarchy.

Double Standards

On a Scale From Virgin to Slut: Why My “Number” Doesn’t Matter
"Your sex life is yours for a reason; it does not have to be divulged or counted or calculated on a scale of virgin-to-’slut’."read more at http://feminspire.com/on-a-scale-from-virgin-to-slut-why-my-number-doesnt-matter/

So the girl who wrote this post said her favorite passage in this movie called Daydream Nation, was the one she posted. But for me, during high school, I was in love with the song Promiscuous Girl by Nelly Furtado, and three of my favorite movies are, Easy A, Friends With Benefits, and No Strings Attached. I was the girl that always dated a different guy. I got bored easily and like a challenge. Then I became that girl who made her boyfriend everything and lost it to him. He completely destroyed me and I became the depressed needy girl who wanted to be alone (if that makes any sense). The fact that I was always dating, made girls hate me and guys did not want to trust me. They spread nasty rumors, which I laugh at now, especially because have of those girls have cheated on their boyfriends, are still obsessed in wanting to be the girl for him, or they are already pregnant or gave birth to their first child. The guys, well, they thought they could have me, and they were wrong.
But now being in college, and out of that small town. I am finally free to be more of an individual then I was in high school. I get to go out with who I want, and do who I want, and it's not a big deal, cause no one gives a shit.
Unfortunately, there comes times when I am really into a guy, but the time he asks me how many guys I have been with, I completely loose interest. First of all, it's none of your god damn business. Second, that is my past, why bring it up, when a future of us together is not certain. Third, why should it even matter? 

It is so shocking how guys are completely hypocritical about how many guys girls sleep with. And on top of that it is even more shocking to see how many girls are against other girls. Girls should always have each other's backs when it comes down to being called names such as "slut" or "whore" because of how many guys they dated, kissed, or fucked. 

Those movies, and that song that I loved in high school were so popular, but they are overlooked. Guys expect that their friends with benefit can only be with them, or vice versa. And girls straight disrespect other girls that live a different lifestyle. 

Just relax, have fun, and try to live your own life. It is actually really simple thing to do. 

“Why do people say "grow some balls"? Balls are weak and sensitive. If you wanna be tough, grow a vagina. Those things can take a pounding.” 
― Sheng Wang

What is Feminist Porn?

Pornography has always been a controversial issue. Does it make men lust more? Does it cause women to be violated and humiliated? Many feminists against it believe that the women are being forced, drugged, or damaged.
But an excerpt from Alison Lee, manager from Good For her, states,
"A porn film can be classified as feminist, I think, as soon as women are taken into account as viewers, and that as actors within the film, their own desires are taken into account. This means basically showing that women have just as much right to erotic entertainment as men do, and their desires and pleasure is important, too. I don't think that feminist porn has to show women at all though, and there is a growing body of excellent smut out there starring trans people (mostly trans men so far) that is looking to show genuine pleasure, consent, and loving relationships outside of the gender binary.

"I think feminists are hungry for erotic entertainment that takes them into account. In the end, we are addressing a growing market, and I hope that more women who don't like porn take a look at some of our winners to see how things could be different, and that the rest of the porn industry starts taking more of our criteria into account!"

Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/living/article/WTF-is-feminist-porn-The-Feminist-Porn-Awards-2493360.php#ixzz2TiqhENeP

I believe that porn should not be kept hidden or made a secrete. The more we try to force people to watch porn, or even not discuss their sex lives, the more it is seen as an unnatural thing. Having sex is going to happen no matter if you are heterosexual or homosexual. It is something we long for. Women are constantly being told that they are sluts if they sleep around. Maybe this spin on porn being more feminist is a good thing. If more women were open to their sex lives, and more men realize more women like to have sex, would make this double standard disappear. Women, as well as men, need to realize that masturbation, sex, and watching porn are natural things that we all do at one point in our lives. Plus, who wants to be sexually frustrated? Sex releases those happy endorphines, so get to it. Make yourself happy, and make sure that you are not the only one pleasing, but the favor is returned. 

#2. Feminism Kills Romance.

Sorry, I'm not sorry. Feminist are able to please their significant others and vice versa, because in the fact that they believe in a give and take with them. They were probably more satisfied because their relationship is more independent and believed in equality. 

"5 Widely Believed Dating Myths (Science Says Aren't True)"
What We Thought:The idea that feminists make bad lovers doesn't just persist among the older generation and fratty douchebag types. After all, isn't that one of the tenets of feminism, that women don't need men? Wasn't it the founders of the modern feminist movement who coined the phrase "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle"? And aren't feminists the ones who refuse to shave their legs and shun all sexy clothing as a byproduct of male objectification and oppression?So even if we're being as progressive and politically correct as possible about feminists, relationships just aren't their thing, right?But Science Says...The raw numbers say otherwise. First of all, women who identify themselves as feminists are, at any given moment, more likely to be in a heterosexual romantic relationship than women who don't (yes, "heterosexual," for those of you who secretly assume "feminist" means "lesbian").But their boyfriends and husbands are surely miserable, right? Having to live with a woman shrieking at them about phallic oppression 24 hours a day?Well, according to that same study, men who reported their partner was a feminist also reported more satisfaction with their sex lives than those who didn't. So as for the idea that feminists are abrasive, mannish women in flannel, either it's grossly inaccurate, or there are a lot of dudes who are into that kind of thing.

Read more: http://www.cracked.com/article_18670_5-widely-believed-dating-myths-science-says-arent-true_p2.html#ixzz2Tilo6iTm"

more about the study can be read here, http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/10/071015102856.htm