What is a Tease?

Throughout high school all of the boys I have ever dated always tried to get some. It was so frustrating because at that time, all I wanted to do was loose it to the love of my life, preferably on my wedding night. But who was I kidding, I knew that I wanted it to be with someone special; someone who I was in a happy, healthy relationship with. That should be understandable right? To guys, it is being considered a tease, if you get him all hyped up and you decided to not finish him off. At times, I can see why boys get mad at girls like that. Some girls just enjoy the attention and never return the favor. Other girls live up the tease reputation and flirt like hell then walk away. I got to admit, I loved being a flirt and a tease in high school. After these last two years in college, and even my last year in high school, I threw that reputation out the door and gained more respect for myself, and grew as an individual.
Now the thing that gets on my nerves is the fact that guys do not understand the word "No," and just try to convince you that it is your obligation to finish them up when they purposely try to get some. Like FUCK OFF, Seriously Dude. It is SO Annoying!
Last night I had this cute boy over and we were just planning to hang out. He had a long day, I had a long day and we both had to be up early. He was planning on leaving back home early (I know this because he straight up stated, "I am going to leave earlier so I can catch some sleep.") But instead, the first thing he does is jump on my air mattress! (I am moving out, that is why I'm sleeping on this atm lol) Then he states, "I want to take a nap." He lives like 30 min away so I figured, "oh he must be tired, lets just take a nap and then he can ride his bike safely back to Pomona." Well that nap turned into him unhooking my bra, because "you shouldn't be wearing a bra to sleep," and him getting a huge boner and him grabbing my hand so I can feel it. Like really?!
I jumped off my bed to lay on the ground after he keeps feeling me up, then I got back on my bed after I told him we are not doing anything tonight. But he kept on insisting that I want to and I need to just relax. NO BRO, YOU NEED TO RELAX.
Any who, at the end of the night he kept acting like it was my fault, and I was the bitch, and he just made me feel soo uncomfortable with myself and with him. This is not the first time this has happened. I don't get why guys just think it's okay to hook up with every girl they hang out with. And I definitely don't get why they flip out on the girl once she does not want to hook up with the dude. She is not being a tease. You are the one who initiates it boys, well you guys do a majority of the time. If I hoped on top of you and started kissing your neck, or even if I just laid next to you rubbing your you know what, then decided not to finish you up at all, then you have every right to call me a tease. But if you keep trying and trying to turn me on and make me want to do more, that is a form of rape! I said NO. And NO means NO. You being persuasive is a pain in our ass. Just stop and calm your dick down.

Now lets look at http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=tease
Number 1

A member of the opposite sex, usually a female who entices you into thinking you have a chance. Almost always ends with you having blue balls and feelings of sorrow, resentment and bitterness.  So with this being said, we see that people just assume it is a female a majority of the time. Newsflash, men can be teases just as much as women, women are just much more flirtatious then men in public. Another point I wanted to make is now that society has implanted the terms, "blue balls," and "tease," in young American minds, women are forever going to be treated like dirt, or even worse, giving a horrible reputation by the horny little bastard that just wanted to get some.  Now lets take a look at number 3 and 6.  That is a real tease. Someone who flirts with you and has no attention in giving in, then just walking away. The moral of this short story is, boys need to relax and allow the girl to do whatever she wants. Both sexes should be comfortable in the situation. Last but not least, no one should have to force someone to feel an obligation, because at the end of the day, that can be seen as rape. Girls never owe guys any satisfaction, and neither do guys for girls. Take care of yourself before you please others, (in the literal nonsexual sense... just felt like I should clarify).